Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Can You Forgive A Cheater?


Many say marriage was created back in the day to keep men from straying; of course if TV has taught us anything; a ring on the finger and a ceremony doesn’t mean a husband or a wife won’t grab some monkey love on the side.

A friend asked me the other day why people cheat; and there are so many reasons why someone looks for sex elsewhere; they’re bored with the same person; they’re not getting sex at home; they’re nymphomaniacs, and sometimes the person you married just  isn't a good fit for you sexually, and as the years go by it gets even worse.
Writing at Starbucks the other day I overheard two sassy gay guys talking; the subject of cheating came about; and the bigger one remarked, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

It made me think, what would I do if I found out my significant other was having an affair? I guess one imagines they would hit the roof, while others probably think, “Good, that will keep him out of my bed.” For me the answer wasn’t as simple; I don’t think I could forgive or trust the person again, but that’s easy to say until it happens to you; sometimes the cheater should be forgiven, and hopefully trust in them restored in the future.
It always amazes me how couples can share a bed, a household and never talk about anything that they’re feeling, which of course makes it easy to imagine all kinds of things are going on with the other person, which in turn makes it easy to cheat, "I bet he's cheating too, we haven't had sex in months."
The answer to the question is; there’s no real answer; everyone’s situation is different and requires a unique reaction; though a good old fashioned vase to the head of the person who cheated on you, works pretty well too.
 

Sunday, June 16, 2013

New Celebrity Trend Alert; Wearing Masks In Public.



Justin Bieber loves Chanel; go girl!
Just when it seems rich people have wasted money on something so stupid, another dumb trend comes along that blows the last ridicules thing out of the water, the newest one? Wearing masks in public.
 
 Madonna; hiding plastic surgery?
 
Kanye West looks like a gay terrorist.
 
Many at the salon are whispering that instead of trying to be so cool, most of these mask-loving celebrities are just covering recent plastic surgery scars, and not trying to be in vogue.
 

Saturday, June 1, 2013

Why Is Kanye West So Damn Angry?




For a man who has almost everything in life; fame; money; health, and a new baby on the way, Kanye West, 35, should be happy, but instead he’s always pissed off; does this man realize what the word ‘grateful’ means?

West has talent, yes, but so do a lot of other people. It’s so sad when some artist’s hit it big, and let their ego take over; this is why I think most awards shows should be banned; best this-best that; you know what? Kiss my ass you over paid fool; the idea that one actor is better than the other is so egotistical; the truth is most awards are given to the actors and singers with the most friends and money in Hollywood, and not always because of how good they are.

A lot of great artist have believed their own hype, and the majority wind up on a horrible reality shows on an anonymous TV network or worst yet, unemployed and broke.


Many whisper Kanye West is Gay; who's to say?


West is a stranger to controversy like a gay guy in West Hollywood is to tank tops; which means for my slower lovelies; they go hand-and-hand.

West has a new album “Yeezus,” That’s coming out soon; so he’s acting extra desperate to sell the thing. People are talking about it, unfortunately for West, only in a negative way. West recently gave horrible performances of materiel from the new album, one at “The Met Ball” and the other on “Saturday Night Live.” On both events West unleashed sloppy jams; for SNL West yelled through new songs “Black Skinhead” and New Slaves,” that left many bored sober. The new songs lyrics and rhymes are so bad and dull; many in attendance laughed that a Venice Beach bum could have put out better songs.



After hearing West’s new album; many have been wondering what happened to the singer/songwriter who gave us gems like, “Gold Digger” and “Heartless”

Instead of acting so pissed off; West should be acting more mature; especially since he’s becoming a father and bringing new life into the world, but that would take humility; something West or his girlfriend, Kim Kardashian, have no knowledge of.

Isn’t it a shame in this day and age how we feed flaming egos like Kanye West, and never give a thought to the thousands of people around the world who go out of their way to make a difference in someone’s life; without ever getting awards, their own fashion line or their ass kissed on a daily basis?